Marriage Life First Responders

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Larry and Angie Selman have an infectious passion for the marriages of first responders. Through real life experience and powerful teaching, this amazing couple will help you build a strong marriage.

Greg Smalley, Vice President, Marriage and Family Focus on the Family

Mission & Vision

MISSION: To strengthen first responder marriages through coaching, teaching, and relevant marriage resources.

VISION: For first responder marriages to thrive and to be a model and mentor for other couples.


Here’s what previous first responders have had to say about our services:

“Larry and Angie have been such a prolific asset to first responders and their families. Their passion and willingness to help has been demonstrated time and time again. They joined our organization on a trip to provide direct support to the Officers who were serving in Portland, Oregon during the fall of 2020; they were such a blessing to all involved. They have such an unwavering desire to assist our blue families and are continually exhibiting what it means to be the hands and feet of Christ. They are amazing mentors and continue to touch the lives of everyone they meet.”

Alyssa, Police Wives of America, Vice President

“The first responder marriage retreat was inspirational!  We liked that it was faith-based, but not overwhelming about God.  We are Christians, but we like that it was about how to survive and thrive in your marriage being a first responder and first responder spouse.”

Jordan & Jessie, El Paso County Sheriff’s Department, Colorado

“In just the few hours we were at the first responder marriage retreat, we felt closer and more intimate than we have in a long time.  It is so wonderful and comforting to know other first responders are with us in our challenges.”

James & Sandra, Fountain Fire Department, Colorado

My husband and I asked Larry and Angie to guide us in our pre-marital counseling in the weeks prior to our wedding.  The book’s insight and questions, Before You “Say I Do,” by H. Norman Wright & Wes Roberts, along with Larry and Angie’s experienced wisdom, were valuable resources for covering topics such as core values, points of view, and expectations prior to our marriage.  It’s important to discuss these things before you become one with someone!

United States Army Couple

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